-By Austin Che Dear Abby, Recently, the most beloved of all the gods, Balder, was killed by Loki. If Like had only wept for Balder, Balder would have been allowed to return to Asgard. Since Loki refuses to weep, Balder is gone forever. Now we have to decide how to punish Loki. Please help. Gods in Need Dear Gods in Need, I would normally say that kindness is needed. I believe that everyone is basically good and can change. Unfortunately, I have not come in contact with many gods. It seems that this Loki you speak of will not change unless something drastic is done. I am not aware of how to punish gods. I would recommend a method in which Loki would have to feel the grief that he has put you through. It might make Loki more understanding about your situation. I do not recommend being too harsh on Loki. I know how painful this is, but punishing Loki to get revenge will accomplish nothing. It is better to make Loki learn. There is plenty of time for a god to learn and improve himself. Abby Dear Abby, I have a problem. I love someone but I can't tell him I love him. No, I'm not shy. I have tried to talk to him many times. The goddess Hera has cursed me. I'm doomed to repeat what others say but can't say anything else. The person I love is so beautiful that everyone longs to be with him. However, he doesn't seem to be affected at all by the girls chasing after him. He cares nothing for how we feel. What should I do? Last Word Dear Last Word, Don't despair. There are other men out there. If the person you love isn't able to understand your feelings, he is probably not a good choice for you. As for the curse, I can't help you much. My advice is seldom more powerful than a goddess. I recommend you to learn to live with your condition. It is unlikely that anyone can reverse the effects of a goddess. The sooner you accept your condition, the sooner you can start living normal again. Talking isn't the only way to communicate. There are many other ways that you can "talk" with others. Do not dwell on your disability and it will not be a disability for you. You will find someone who will understand you better than anyone you have known. Abby Dear Abby, I hate love. I hate marriage. I love hunting. Is there something wrong with this? Apollo, the god himself chased me, wanting me. But I ran, and ran, and finally my father turned me into a tree. Did I do something wrong? Am I selfish in refusing the love of others? Please help. Laurel Dear Laurel, I don't think there is anything wrong with refusing love. However, refusing the love of a god might be much more difficult. Each individual has the right to choose who they love and who they marry. You have this right, and so you have the right to not love Apollo. Unfortunately, you can't control if others fall in love with you. Running from the problem is not the best way to solve your problem. You may disagree, but I think living in any condition is better than becoming a tree. If you could face your problems instead of running, the problems will become much more manageable. Running solves nothing. The problem will relentlessly pursue you until it catches you as it finally did. Facing the problem with courage and strength will stop the problem before it progresses too far. Abby Dear Abby, I killed my wife and my three sons. The goddess, Hera, made me mad and in an instant I had killed the people I loved so much. I feel that I should avenge their death. Why should I spare my own life because I was mad? Is it not proper for me to die? With everyone trying to keep death away from me, I'm wondering if I should reconsider. What reason is there for me to live anymore? Help me please. Murderer Dear Murderer, A murder is not horrible unless it was done intentionally and with purpose. In your case, it was Hera that made you commit murder. You had no control over it. There was no intent and so you should not die. No one can rightfully blame you for the death of your wife and children. However, I don't think you should just walk away from this and forget this incident. It is important that you understand exactly what happened. You took the lives of four people and this should not be taken lightly. If you are looking for a punishment for yourself, death is definitely the wrong choice. I'm sure your wife and children wouldn't want you to kill yourself. If you killed yourself, the death would be meaningless. Your death won't change what has already happened. You should remember what happened but you must continue living the life you have. Abby